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Terry L. Lemmer

January 22, 1957 – January 4, 2024

Henrietta – Devoted, loving mother, nana, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, cousin, friend. Passed away unexpectedly on January 4, 2024. She is predeceased by her husband Terry Lemmer, parents Leonard and Marilyn Barber, mother and father-in-law Joyce and James Lemmer, brother-in-law Mark Pemberton.

Survived by her children Scott (Liz) Lemmer, Kimmy (Pete) Blankenburg, Shannon (Darin) Ledwith. Grandbabies Trey(Trey-Trey), Gia (G-Baby), and Bella (Boo). Siblings Al Barber (Nancy), Len Barber (Nancy), Sherry Andrus (Greg), Shawn Barber (Karen), Becky Pemberton.  Nieces and Nephews Brandon, Shelby, Jenna, Nicole, Emily, Mikey, Courtney. Several great nieces and nephews, family and friends.

To know Terry, was to love her. She loved with her whole heart and made everyone feel like family.  Her reason for being was her family and she made sure we all knew that. She didn’t just say it, she showed it through her actions daily. Her Trey, Gia and Bella were her EVERYTHING. Her biggest goal in life was to be the very best Nana to her babies and she far succeeded in that.

Terry touched the lives of so many which created life long friendships. She held her friendships so near and dear to her heart and made sure everyone knew just how special they were to her.  As we celebrate the life of a person so special, it can’t be put into words, we ask that you please remember how she touched your lives, how special she made you feel, and forever keep her in your hearts.

Calling hours will be held TUESDAY January 9th from 10 AM – 12 PM, with her Funeral Service at 12 PM at Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc.

In lieu of flowers contributions can be made to: Autism Up, 50 Science Pkwy., Roch., NY 14620 DONATE ONLINE or Rochester Edge Girls Hockey, 2700 Brighton Henrietta T.L. Rd., Roch., NY 14623 DONATE ONLINE or Click HERE to Learn More  

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