Mrs. Patricia Ann Rutkowski Parker, age 86, of Pittsford, NY, passed away peacefully on the evening of September 16th, 2025, at her home.

Born on November 27, 1939, she was the beloved daughter of the late Francis and Valeria Rutkowski. Known affectionately as Pat-and “Bachi” to her cherished grandchildren-she is survived by her devoted husband of 64 years, Robert Parker; her two sons, Peter Parker (Jodi) and David Parker; and five loving grandchildren: Matthew Parker, Lauren Hynes Parker (Zachary), Dakota Parker (Courtney), Logan Parker, and Alden Parker. She also leaves behind many extended family members and dear friends who will deeply miss her.

Pat touched countless lives throughout her lifetime. Though she earned her BS in Nursing, her true calling was as an educator. Early in her career, she worked in an OB-GYN office, where she taught Lamaze and menopause classes. Later, she transitioned to working for the Center for Youth Services, bringing critical education on sex education and drug prevention to middle and high school students-a role she passionately held into her 70s. But of all the students she ever taught, none brought her more joy than her grandchildren. She poured her love, wisdom, and sense of humor into every moment with them.

Family and friends are invited to call on Friday, September 26, 2025, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. and again on Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 pm at Miller Funeral and Cremation Services (3325 Winton Rd S., Rochester, NY 14623). Pat’s funeral Mass will be celebrated at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, September 27, 2025, at the Church of the Transfiguration (50 W Bloomfield Rd, Pittsford, NY 14534). Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

Donations in Pat’s memory may be made to the Center for Youth [Donate Online]